Recipes to having a Successful love, Relationship And marriage

Recipes to having a Successful love, Relationship And marriage 


Successful  relationships and marriage happen  when both parties are committed to creating a positive, nurturing, successful relationship that leads to a marriage where both spouses are happy, valued each other , and validated as well as having  the right attitude towards the growth of the relationships. 

Below are some of the recipes you needed to have your relationship and marriage succeeded. 



Attitude is very important in any  relationship you found yourself with anyone, a good looking person with bad attitude or character will always get it wrong, and a waste of time, good and positive attitude will always buy you luxury if you know how to be conscious of your attitudes. 

You need to the have the right attitude towards your relationship because you ought to make it work, some people have gotten the right relationship but their character and the attitude they showed towards the relationships has really ruined the relationship. As its said that, love is doing to others what you expect them to do to you. To mention a few out of the attitude you should do away with if your relationship must grow and be successful,

Nagging , Reference to the past mistakes,  complaints, Anger , are you  the type that loose control whenever you are angry?, some like breaking stuffs etc. Whatever the case maybe you should learn how to control your temper because if you don't it will ruin your relationship when your partner feels like they've had enough already... 




As human, it's impossible not to be offended and vice versa. Therefore, as you expect forgiveness from your partner you should also learn how to forgive them too, that's just the trend of how life goes.

In any relationship forgiveness and letting go is very important it create avenue for more love and commitment.

But when one fail to forgive and let go of a mistake of their  partner its create gap between them, at this juncture they  don't  know what's their  partner's mind about them anymore.

 Forgiveness is one thing and letting go is another, if you say I have forgiven you, but I can't forget, it means that you will still make references to such mistake in future  and this make your partner loose their confidence and loving strength  already possessed.

 For your relationship to be successful you must let go when you forgive it really go a long way in enhancing the success of your relationship and marriage...



Its necessary for you to have time for your partner out of your busy schedule you just have create time for them.

So many relationships has been ruined due to lack of time for teach other, when you give someone your time and such person never do the same in return you will soon get tired and discourage and vice versa.


For your relationship and marriage to be successful you have to involve them in your daily schedule and reciprocate the time given to you back to your partner, this really make them feel loved and with this they will be committed to you, you don't have to be narcissist, if its given to you then do the same.


It's quite right that you are busy and you always have busy day, you can still text, send voice note, etc within your busy day, just as its necessary for you make use of the rest room when the need arises, so you can  as well text or send voice note to your partner.

 It doesn't take more than 5 minutes, and I believed that you can always afford this time, but when you don't consider your partner missing you or  needed to hear from you, you became absent minded if their feelings, thus they are neglected, they never get involve in your daily routine and when they try telling you, you kept giving reasons and excuses which is not what you really needs, you've to make them feel loved and Committed to you, by providing the  time  required by your relationships and marriage.  

if you have not been giving it before , or you have stopped for whatever reason  it's high time you start giving it now, for its needful  if your relationship and marriage Must succeed.


     Those little things

Just as you wants to be happy, in same manner your partner want to be happy, having you being the reason behind their happiness.

Those little things that you know its make them happy really count, and go a long way to strengthened your relationships, and also  they spiced up the love too, so, '' never stop doing them'', they include gratitude, play time, pet names, attentions text, chat, voice note, dancing, singing etc, keep doing them for they are helping you two, to remain connected, the moment you think they are no longer relevant that is when something begins to go wrong in your relationship because the grip is loosen already.


Sometimes couples stop doing the little things that got them connected in the first place, they simply assumed that we are married now!, so, '' no big deal '' , actually there is a very big deal, in fact capital big deal, '' when you fail to do those things that makes your relationship a romantic one'', those things that makes your partner adores and loves you more!, it simply means that, you are saying you don't want them anymore, it shows you are tired of the adventure with them, it makes them feel no more relevant to you, even though you still love them more, '' they just want the old times together back! '' , therefore, never stop doing those little things they count a lot. 

Having a successful relationship is not by accident or Coincident its required your commitment and determination to make it work. 

At first it might be rough but don't give up for success is near..


Hope you are inspired...

In  our next publication we shall be discussing about 6 more Recipes to having  a successful relationship and marriage.



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Peteru - Mar 21, 2020, 1:51 PM - Add Reply

That good

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Born on the 24th may 1989, Graduated from the University of Nigeria Nsukka, with a bachelor degree in Eeducation, in the year 2016 and completed nysc in the year 2019. Currently a writer and a motivational/ speaker, single and aspiring to go higher places in public spaeaking, a Christian. Hail from Ekiti State. Based in Lagos State. Nigeria 🇳🇬.